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Monday, November 29, 2010
Racism
Well, I honestly don't know how each person will respond to this. This is one of those that you are free to disagree with me on, but please seek to understand me. Because of recent conversations, the details of which I will not share, this topic has been really working hard on me.
The questions I hope to answer are: What is racism? Why does racism exist? How does it evidence itself in a daily manner? Are you a racist? What is the solution to racism?
First things first, my goal is not to talk about one race as opposed to the another, simply to point out how we deal with the issues about race. I would even argue that there is no such thing as a 'different' race. We all are related if you go back far enough. There is only one race, the human race. But there is different cultures and those cultures do have an influence on us.
Also, this post should be applicable to whatever pigment of skin that you have and from whatever background you come from. Racism is not a skin color, it is heart problem.
What is racism?
According to the dictionary, racism is: : a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race.
I would like to take it a bit farther and possibly make it more clear. Racism is simply thinking that you are better or more deserving than someone else of a different color.
Why does racism exist?
Because of sin, mainly the sin of pride. Since sin entered the world it rears its ugly head in different ways. Looking back in history it is easy to see that the sin of racism has caused many evils in the world. We like to put ourselves on the throne and determine what is right and wrong instead of looking to the one who created us.
How has racism evidenced itself in the past?
Thinking about Hitler exterminating the Jews because he felt they were an inferior race is a perfect example of racism when carried to its natural outcome. Our own country has the terrible past of owning slaves as well. It was less than 50 years ago that blacks and whites didn't eat in the same restaurants, drink from the same water fountain or go to the same schools. I am obviously too young to have experienced those events, but there are many living today who have.
How does racism evidence itself now and are you a racist?
The Ku Klux Klan still exists in some areas. It's amazing that they have to hide cowardly behind hoods. Maybe you're not in the KKK, but I'd like to go deeper.
This is where it gets personal. If you were in a room and someone asked you to raise your hand if you are a racist would you raise your hand? Let me ask you some questions and see how you do?
1) Do you think of yourself better than someone of a different race?
2) When you checkout at a counter do you go to the person who has the same color skin as you, even if it's a little out of the way, do you avoid the employee at the counter that is of a different color or ethnic background, even if it's right in front of you?
3) When you walk into a building/classroom/restaurant, do you avoid an area because of the skin color or language spoken by those in a particular area?
4) When you are walking close to someone of a different different skin color or ethnic background do you reach for your pocketbook or wallet?
5) Would it offend you if your sister, brother, son, daughter, mom, dad, grandson, grand daughter or friend married and had children with or adopted someone of a different race?
If you answered yes to any of these questions then it's very possible that you are harboring some racism in your heart. The difference is in the degree that you carry it out. I think that with many people today they feel like they are ok as long as "they" (meaning the 'other' race) stay to themselves. That logic may work for a while, but not for long. It is mostly just an easy way to avoid the problem.
Jesus said that if you hate someone then you have committed murder in your heart. I believe this applies to a group of people as well. Are you guilty of murder?
What is the solution to racism?
If you're not offended/convicted yet, this might do it. The solution to racism is the cross of Christ. When you realize that you are utterly unworthy of acceptance before a Holy God, you will not look down on others, you will look up to God. The ground at the cross is level, there is no 'better' in God's eyes when he views the skin. We are all unworthy of Him and desperately need His Grace.
For those who profess Christ I have two more application questions:
1) If Jesus was a _______ man, would you still worship him, would anything change? (fill in the blank with an ethnic background/race different than you)
2) If you had to spend more time in heaven with someone of a different race than your own, would you still want to go?
It may look like I'm pointing the finger out to everyone else, but please be aware that I am also aware of what goes on in my heart as well. Most of the questions asked above have went through my head sometime in my lifetime. I'm ok with admitting it, repenting of it and seeking forgiveness in the cross.
I will end this with a personal story of a conversation with someone I had about 6 years ago. Again, the specifics of which ethnic group we talked about doesn't matter and they could be interchanged with another very easily. Let's say the guy's name was Barry:
Barry: "Kris, what do you think about these people marrying someone of a different race?"
me: "When you think about it Barry, we are really of the same race, the human race, we just look different, maybe listen to different music and dress a little different"
Barry: "Well I'm not racist or anything, but I just think that people should stick to their own kind, know what I mean?"
me: "I do too Barry, that's why people shouldn't be married to their cat or dog", smiling but understanding what he meant.
Barry: "Well doesn't the bible say it's wrong, something about not being unequally yoked?"
me: "Actually it's referring to a Christian and a non-Christian not being together, not different ethnic Backgrounds Barry. Let me ask you a question, you have a little girl right?"
Barry: "Yes, she's 2 years old"
me: "Ok, I'm going to give you two different options and you tell me which one you would prefer.
1) Your daughter is 19 years old and has a boyfriend who wants to marry her, he's white, drives a truck, listens to country music, and has a blue collar job. In other words, he's a lot like you. The problem is that this same guy verbally, mentally, and physically abuses your daughter.
2) Your daughter is 19 years old and has a boyfriend who wants to marry her, he treats her like a queen, takes her to church every Sunday, and promises to always treat her with respect and dignity. Oh and by the way, he's black.
Which situation would you prefer?"
Barry: "I don't know, I'll have to think about it"
That conversation actually happened. It was very sad. The person continues to think he's not a racist, what do you think?
I am very thankful that my kids are growing up in an age when everyone is free to sit in any seat on the bus, go to any restaurant they want, drink from any water fountain they want, and vote with their vote counting for a full person (not 3/5th of a person). With that being said there is still a lot of racism that goes on in the public arena and in private homes. There's a lot that goes on in the heart of a lot of people. I pray that both of my kids will view each person the same; someone made in the image of God, who has sinned against Him, and who needs God's mercy and grace.
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i really enjoyed your post. I think today that is the main issue of racism if you are marring someone not of "your own kind". especially in the south. When the main focus should be do they love eachother and treat each other right, not the color of their skin. that is really sad that that father had to think about it, basically saying its okay if a man hit his daughter as long as he is white.
ReplyDeleteOnce again, Kris, you have zeroed in on an issue in a way that unclothes our hidden pride and selfishness, and it's not only racism but in so many other ways as well in which we just think out ideas and our plans are better then those of others because that's the way they appear in our eyes. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Kris. You touched a nerve I guess that even prompted me to become a follower!
ReplyDeleteConvicting... I still, at times, regretably, think of myself as somehow better than others, though not as much better or as often these days as when I first believed (the gospel of Christ and of His transforming grace). Guess that's the process of sanctification and the lifelong lessons of humility. I repent again, Lord..
Just read this morning from a Tabletalk 'Generation to Generation' article by a California Baptist college prof., Dr. Alex Chediak:
To love is to stop enviously looking up or haughtily looking down.
Thanks for the post.
Kris, I think you probably know how I feel on this subject...we've had many discussions. 15 years ago, my marriage would've been highly looked down upon by the people of the south. Being that my husband grew up during the Civil Rights Movement and in the North, he experienced racism first hand. Growing up in WV, we were rather sheltered; and for me, I never experienced different races or cultures until I went away to college.
ReplyDeleteHere it is almost 2011 and there are still people who, because of their fear, upbringing or plain ignorance still believe that they are superior to all who are not like them. I, personally feel sorry for them. They are missing out on having valuable relationships with some very worthy people!
As you and I both studied the Bible in college and seminary...we know that Jesus was a man of color! Ooh, I'm sure that raised a few eyebrows! There is no way that he could have been as pale as society has portrayed him. Where he was born, raised and died was a very hot, dry location. (At the very least, He had a nice tan!)
For those who are racist, even in the slightest way, I pray that you think about your situation and if the situation were reversed...would you want to be treated the way you are treating those who are "beneath" you???
Erin,
ReplyDeletevery true, I'm still friends with the person at the end of the post. I wonder if his views have changed any since then? Sometime things take time, of course sometimes time hardens people more.
Ross,
Thanks for the encouragement, most of these posts are designed to help me as much as others.
Paul,
I know exactly what you're talking about. Love the quote by Chediak.
Wendy,
Good thoughts, the reversal of the situation is a good point. I wonder how many people would actually accept Jesus in the flesh today and how many would avoid him.
I have another post brewing in my head that will explore these issues more, focusing specifically on why we act and think the way we do. I plan to talk about possible wrong motives in relationships and our response to those we see as 'racist'.
Thanks for reading and commenting. Keep in mind that your comments are not only expressing your view/opinion, but also can be helping other, whether you agree with what I say or not.